childhood abuse and the coverup of it

The Tony Soprano character represents many of the abusive ways men with strength, abilities and some dimensions of character, (bravery, courage, and follow through,) deal with pain, perpetuate their pain, their childhood abuse and the coverup of it and only appear to resolve their pain in more sophisticated and concealed ways. Yet in the end such emotionally blind individuals (predatory narcissist) find ways to even use therapy as a means to inflict abuse on others, their children and the world the way the religions of the world did and still do.