You cannot share the truth, connect in a non-toxic bind, honestly exchange in a meaningful

You cannot share the truth, connect in a non-toxic bind, honestly exchange in a meaningful and sincere way with someone that has spent most of their life hiding from them selves and out of fear to avoid the shock and devastation of their emotional disfigurement which has become amplified by their lost long past decisions to identify with the exploiters and abusers in their life. They fallaciously or unconsciously believe that they have gained and profited from this orientation and will not change. As long as they are in denial of their truth and abuse they will continue to perpetrate the same way or in a similar way in which were perpetrated. They might pretend to be your friend, lover, greatest supporter to undermine you and stab you in the back, anything to keep their pain pushed down and out of consciousness. They are loyal to The perpetrators Not to them self and not to you. These are the greatest believers. The pillars of the communities. The most Christian of all Christian, the most caring of all caring, the most sound of all sound, intelligent of all intelligent and the most pathetic persons you will ever experience. Copyright © 2014 Anthony Cavuoti All Rights Reserved

You just follow the flow of fools passively going to oblivion.

You lack the courage to make it real, the uniqueness of your subjectivity. Your strength is using what is common to you and others to fit in. You think by being approved of, indifferent, righteous, seemingly firm and blindly loyal on the outside, while dying on the inside in the common ground game that seduces us and betrays us, you are being unique and daring and satisfied. You just follow the flow of fools passively going to oblivion.

Express your real self

Yes pleasure, joy and ecstasy, the springs of life, to live life, not to escape from life. You can't use one side of life to nullify another not even a delicious side or an exhilarating side. But it Sure feels good for a while. You have to take care of business, most of all your self, the real experience, needs, desires and longings of you behind the masks of the competent roles you play to the world that demands them of you. Real to yourself (And not overly adapting) that makes these little whiles happen and happen more intensely over and over again, as you express your real self by their exhilaration not using them to hide from your real self and life. Copyright © 2014 Anthony Cavuoti All Rights Reserved

Do not mistaken this force by the way it has been misused

We do not have to worship it, praise it, change or alter our behaviors to please it, to summons it, we do not have to adhere to a certain moral or ethical code to obtain it powers, its guiding, protecting, and reifying influences. Like electricity or radio waves, and like so many other forces that we have only recently discovered and are learning how to use, this force was always there, It is here now, we simply have to relate with this force in a manner that is attune to the many layers of our uniqueness and the circumstances that we are in and what we long to become and with those we love. Do not mistaken this force by the way it has been misused, twisted, exploited by the many ways mankind has disguised it. Individuals, civilizations and institutions have attempted to usurp it the in the forms of religious institutions, moral and cultural precepts, controlling philosophies and spiritual practices.

Being dyslexic I really experience what hypocrites people and institutions are

Being dyslexic I really experience what hypocrites people and institutions are. Right from the start I recalled vividly how I knew I should spell but was unable to. I tried but was baffled by the entangled puzzlement of such of a seemingly simple task that on some levels I knew I had the intelligence to master. I needed someone to help me, to make sense of this, someone that understood for I could not understand what was happening and why it was. The same was true for reading but even worse, for my difficulties in reading were just as profound but this vulnerability of my learning style was always made public in front of the class and the teachers had no shame in how they shamed me as well as embarrassed me by having me fail so crushingly so very often reading infrunt of the class, as an exercise and then later as a punishment. My kindergarten, first and second grade teachers where terrible sadistic old spinsters who's hostility and indifference knew no boundaries. Thrird forth and fifth grade teachers were not as bad but the worce of all was the Neo Nazi of a sixth-grade teacher Miss Schmidt. Copyright © 2014 Anthony Cavuoti All Rights Reserved

Real love is like moisture in the air

Real love is like moisture in the air, you cannot fake it, it is either there or it is not, and how much is there. Most families are a house on fire, there is no moisture, none. They are simply proficient at pretending there is. Copyright © 2012 Anthony Cavuoti All Rights Reserved

He answers “Lets just call it soul or right brain, we try to keep a balance, as your culture favors the left brain, linear control processes, we are more right brain intuitive. “ “Help me understand it more clearly” I ask The captain continues, “thinking and planning for us are faculties of the mind to assist us at times. Your culture is fixated on thinking and planning, you have come to identify with that part of your mind as who you are, you have created models of who you are, what the universe is and you are trapped in your however ingenious but limited perception. We experience the expanding, mystifying and clarifying nature of our self and creation.” I ask, “What do you use thinkig for.” He replies, “to wonder, as well as to assist us in concrete operations for a particular time and place” Copyright © 2014 Anthony Cavuoti All Rights Reserved He answers “Lets just call it soul or right brain, we try to keep a balance, as your culture favors the left brain, linear control processes, we are more right brain intuitive. “ “Help me understand it more clearly” I ask The captain continues, “thinking and planning for us are faculties of the mind to assist us at times. Your culture is fixated on thinking and planning, you have come to identify with that part of your mind as who you are, you have created models of who you are, what the universe is and you are trapped in your however ingenious but limited perception. We experience the expanding, mystifying and clarifying nature of our self and creation.” I ask, “What do you use thinkig for.” He replies, “to wonder, as well as to assist us in concrete operations for a particular time and place” Copyright © 2014 Anthony Cavuoti All Rights Reserved

It is not karma

We are in a state of misery, of anxiety, of constant struggle, and constantly being harassed by our fellow human beings, and the worries of our existence not because we are born defective, not because we are born in a state of sin, or because we have karma, bad karma. It is our up-bringings, our culture keeps us in a state of perpetual ignorance, it uses our sacred traditions for this such as religion, such sacred traditions both inspire us, guide us and keep us in a constant state of ignorance. The hypocrisy of this poisonous pedagogy damages the developing nervous system and brain of the child for life. The full force of the childs inner beauty, of the pent up life and love behind the floodgates of superstition, of repression will only be realized to the child once this truth is known, once this truth is felt, once this truth is experienced. Now as adults we unconsciously hide behind the cloak of the insidious methods of our unbringing and we perpetrate on one another through socially sanctioned molds of conduct the neglect, indifference and abuses that were done to us as infants, as children. As adults we blame it on God, on karma, on our genes, when in fact it is the ignorance of our civilization, of our society and its misuse and abuse of sacred traditions that give the adults in our vulnerable years permission to damage us, permission to neglect us, permission to abuse us, it is a socially sanctioned terrorism of the soul. Are awareness and our willingness to see it is the beginning of the ending of this ignorance. These superstitions that keep us ignorant. it is not God, it is not bad or past karma, it is the imprint of how we were treated as children. Copyright © 2014 Anthony Cavuoti All Rights Reserved