Sunday, November 04, 2012

Their ways are beyond what is apparent


Some feelings and emotions you simply have to actively   watch them come and go (for a while, you must wait, do not force their answer for their ways are beyond what is apparent), feel them but do not act on them, do not surrender to them.     Knowing how to interpret them is important.  If you feel desperate most likely they came from somewhere, of fear, of anxiety from your past.   Knowing what they are frees you from your past, plus you are more able to be in the here and now, as well have less anxiety about the future.   

From here you can act on them once all aspects of you are in accordance with what your feelings are telling you, and why you are expressing them, what result do you desire, in ways that are life, self affirming.

Faith is knowing that life will give you unexpected


Having real faith is knowing that life will give you unexpected circumstances that no one could have imagined were all of your so called mistakes, faults, weaknesses, and issues will be your greatest strengths, such ways of how things are will not only redeem you but rattle all those that  doubted you, in to higher levels of belief  in life, in their good.  Many will be more able  to see through the illusion of darkness, that is the result of intentional lack of love.

No matter how good or painful

Facing our feelings and emotions, no matter how good or painful, owning them and coming up with effective strategies to express them, to be heard is a great deal of what life is about. 

brighter, deeper, and more alive


Our feelings are ends in themself, and they serve our soul, that is our unique ways of unfolding our unique self in every instance, as soul strives to reify it self in the stratum we call reality, intimacy, culture, society, family, work.  Love and intimacy free us from such confinements, such roles into universes within our reality that is much brighter, deeper, and more alive.

Saturday, November 03, 2012

So you think you can change a Narcissist.


So you think you can change a Narcissist.

Do you think by pleasing me that I will really love you, respect you, let me tell you something, I lost my self, my humanity long before you were born, you are just a front for my enterprises, no 
more. I will fool you as well as myself into thinking that I am for you and decent from time to time because it makes me more appealing so that I can sucker others in, so shut up and play your role.

Our dreams tell us of experiences that ours states of mind will have in this life as well as in other existences.


Our dreams tell us of experiences that ours states of mind will have in this life as well as in other existences. 

Friday, November 02, 2012

Quit looking for your salvation from the emotionally stunted people.


We forget that we are part of the very core of creation, thus we are an expression of creation. From time to time we incarnate into families that is into circumstances
 that shame us out of are core, of who we are, this starts from birth, such feelings begin in the womb from the circumstances that surround the mother. The way out of such feelings is in. Own your feelings, they are telling you that the environment that you came from and are in is inadequate for your healthy development.. Quit looking for your salvation from the emotionally stunted people of your past and your present. Find it in people who are able and willing to own their projections, who are capable of really loving you, caring for you, support your positive strivings, that is, be with people who love you for you stead of trying to manipulate you into roles that validates their twisted and stunted sense of self. Do not be with people that shame you,that play off of your vulnerabilities.

We all have a unique way

Though our reality shares a common ground with other people, we all relate to life, creation and God, uniquely as we relate to them, which is God.    We all have a unique way of being, of moving through reality.   All of us can do things in reality that no one else can do.  Knowing this with love in your heart creates real empowerment that is real success.    Daring to know your unique reality not only frees you, it frees thousands now, millions over time as well in future generations.   Your thoughts reflect how you transcend reality, how you relate to reality, your brain reflects this as well.  Change your way of relating and you change your reality. 

Anthony Cavuoti, Parrallity

Emotionally stunted people

We forget that we are part of the very core of creation, thus we are an expression of creation.   From time to time we incarnate into families that is into circumstances that shame us out of are core, of who we are, this starts from birth, such feelings begin in the womb from the circumstances that surround the mother.   The way out of such feelings is in.  Own your feelings, they are telling you that the environment that you were raised in was inadequate. Quit looking for your salvation from the emotionally stunted people of your past.  Find it in people who are able and willing to own their projections, who are capable of really loving you, that is be with people who love you for you instead of trying to manipulate you into roles that validates their twisted and stunted sense of self.