Atlas shrugs

As you ripen inwardly you cultivate perceptions, powers that increasingly allow you to discern more clearly, to really know more distinctly what is in your best interest, one way this shows is that you are more enthralled by liberated and differentiated individuals, that you are attracted to more evolved souls and your less compulsively driven to prove yourself too and through ignorance and those fixated on their delusions. Even those whose personal delusions are sanctioned by societies and the cultures delusions; ( conformity, mediocrity , entitlement, indifference, disingenuousness, being but a few) as you mature inwardly you are less likely to get entangled in personal and business relationships with such Individuals, groups and institutions. As you know yourself more, your awareness increases, with some practice and willingness to tolerate the many setbacks and frustrations you can cultivate the strengths and skills too better set as well as maintain appropriate boundaries, then as a result of such solidified gains, you are less likely to attempt the futile task of repaying false emotional debts and or rescuing or being manipulated by those that refuse to learn from their life, from those that are not able and or willing to reflect, from those that use empathy to disable instead of enable, from those that lack courage, from those that are addicted to controling others by catering to their weaknesses, that are addicted to their false pride and fears, when you refuse to suffer in the hands of fools anymore you are less likely to maroon yourself in the collective conformity of being hyper normal, overly adapting, overly adjusting, overly self conscious. This comes through experiences where by you are more able to appreciate the uniqueness of your pattern of attributes and the powers of your originality. You more fully come to understand that potentiating your unique array of powers benefits far more than yourself. You realize that this process needs to be taken seriously, that it is not automatic, it is valuable an requires sustained effort and careful nurturing. A knowing has become part of you, part of which is that the degree to which you persevere, deal with the resistance and struggles and live out the full range of your powers is the degree to which others who take the maturity of there being serious have the opportunity to individuate and potentiate their powers in a meaningful way that vitalizes others. Your daring to individuate, to live out the full range of your powers despite the resistance of our cultural mediocrity increases the range of opportunities for you to cultivate, express and share the full range of your powers consciously with others that have the courage to become what they are instead of always having to twist, disfigure, homogenize yourself so as to be accepted as well as taken serious through the marginalized rules of engagement that society, culture and individual’s compulsively impose on themselves and each other. That is you see the importance of not falling asleep and allowing the stream of commonality, impose mediocrity and conformity to carry you down the path of marginal unfulfilling existences. As a result you choose to associate with people that have perfected their powers, individuals with more of a propensity to assist you in flourishing instead of frustrating the cultivation and expression of your uniqueness. You choose people that have the ability and intent to assist you in flourishing instead of those that mistake weakness, conformity with maturity As you become more selective you find that you are less frustrated in more able for you have chosen people that support your becoming as opposed to covertly or overtly undermining you. You chose people that accommodate support and nurture you to express your debths with the least amount of distortions. Copyright © 2019 Anthony Cavuoti MA. All Rights Reserved