Even the most so called high functioning educated emotionally adjusted people have gone through many emotional traumas.

Even the most so called high functioning educated emotionally adjusted people have gone through many emotional traumas. As a result, far too much of their consciousness and mind most of the time is not their own. How they relate to you reflects their anger towards their unfulfilling and torturous emotional states. If they want to change they have to make a great effort and deal with a great deal of uncertainty to get past the certainty of their pain.