You are not letting them die, they killed them selves

Some people always want to expand their power, well, power for its own sake without real depth and understanding is bad ego, such loss their infinite self in their finite self, they are psychopaths that hide, hide from them selves and from you as business partners, bosses, spouses, and so on, they are bad programs. Ego possessed people passing as well meaning will not change with reason, reason is not a means to the truth but for them a means to hide. Love, and attachment for them are weapon to be used for their increase of power, such people really do die while they are alive, you can not save them from them selves, they have to put life and loved over power which they will not do or face. You are not letting them die, they killed them selves.