Keep the real real

If you do not like someone, if they do not respect you, if they refuse to connect with you in a sincere genuine way, with real reciprocity and or they cannot, then it is all right to have nothing to do with them. This goes for everyone, if they poison you with their issues, avoid the real behind excuses, excesses, if they take pride in their stubbornness, stupidity, hostility, control issues, anger, vanity, self-aggrandizing, greed, gets off on others sufferings, if they hide behind their self righteousness and this affects you in your daily life; you do not have to ever go back with them again in any way, in this world as well as in all worlds to come. If they refuse to see how they affect you, face their issues, if they keep trying to put their issues son you, let them stay loss. Go to life, not death. You are obligated not to transmit their issues to your self as well as to the next generation, too many do already.

If you cannot disconnect from the person for what ever reason it is all right to keep a healthy emotional distance. That is you do not take their manipulative emotional threats masked as love, pride or caring, (and their shameless ways that make it seem as if they own you,) seriously. You really do not care, you see them as the big baby that they are, the stunted fools that they really are.