We all have many states of mind

We all have many states of mind, and revolving attitudes, it says a lot  about the person when someone shows concern when you are in pain instead of judging the  words of your distress.  

how deeply I love, how much I love children, how wonderful they are, God is.

In my pain that I do not even know that I am in, I forget how much, how deeply I love, how much I love children, how wonderful they are, God is. 

self-righteous fools

Those of you self-righteous fools that beat, that neglect your children and hit them and think it is all right, expect the same when you are elderly, from them and from life.  But I would be a fool to think that you God gift to the world Narcissists would get this, you will quote the bible and blame your children, they will blame them selves for your stupidity and pass this ignorance to their children, you deserve your fate, but you are so right, all of the time.  

Keep the real real

If you do not like someone, if they do not respect you, if they refuse to connect with you in a sincere genuine way, with real reciprocity and or they cannot, then it is all right to have nothing to do with them. This goes for everyone, if they poison you with their issues, avoid the real behind excuses, excesses, if they take pride in their stubbornness, stupidity, hostility, control issues, anger, vanity, self-aggrandizing, greed, gets off on others sufferings, if they hide behind their self righteousness and this affects you in your daily life; you do not have to ever go back with them again in any way, in this world as well as in all worlds to come. If they refuse to see how they affect you, face their issues, if they keep trying to put their issues son you, let them stay loss. Go to life, not death. You are obligated not to transmit their issues to your self as well as to the next generation, too many do already.

If you cannot disconnect from the person for what ever reason it is all right to keep a healthy emotional distance. That is you do not take their manipulative emotional threats masked as love, pride or caring, (and their shameless ways that make it seem as if they own you,) seriously. You really do not care, you see them as the big baby that they are, the stunted fools that they really are.   

I get marooned

Sometimes, mostly during the holidays I go back home emotionally, I get marooned their, for a while, as if I am thirteen again, in the snow in front of the house in the street, with large snow piles all around me, I am telling my self this time I am going to make the long walk back and never come back here again.

Keep the real real

If you do not like someone, if they do not respect you, if they refuse to connect with you in a sincere genuine way, and or they cannot, then it is all right to have nothing to do with them.  This goes for family. If they poison you with their issues, avoid the real behind excuses, excesses, if they take pride in their stubbornness, stupidity, hostility, control issues, anger, if they hide behind their self righteousness and this affects you in your daily life; you do not have to ever go back with them again, in this world as well as in all worlds to come.  If they refuse to see how they affect you, face their issues, if they keep trying to put their issue on you, let them stay loss.  Go to life, not death.   You are obligated not to transmit their issues to the next generation, too many do already.